"it's different"

My dad must've said this at least three times, which is usually a cover for not liking something. But afterwards he said he had a good time and was glad we went.

We got there early as a matter of course (remember I don't like being late) and people were still setting stuff up. Because of this my dad and I ended up just standing around for a half-hour. I was anxious and uncomfortable and then my dad informed me he was having second thoughts. Even though I was just as nervous I laughed it off because I wanted to stay.

Between 10 and 10:30 AM other dads and daughters started showing up. Most were young but there were some older daughters too. By 11 o'clock there was quite a crowd so my dad and I didn't feel as conspicuous (my dad put it best, "the more people there are, the less they're focused on you").

The tea was loosely based on High Tea which is usually British (High Tea is around 5 or 6 o'clock instead of in the afternoon). This tea was set in a medieval theme with a King and Queen. All the guests were formally announced with fancy made up names to fit the period, and I think because I knew the King and Queen it wasn't near as uncomfortable as it could have been. Luckily our seats were in the way back next to a wall so we were out of the way. I didn't know anyone at our table but after we did a round of introductions I started to relax and ended up having a good time. It wasn't fantastic but it was a fun experience. Dad said, "Well, now we can say we've done it." My sentiments exactly. I didn't go for the food or even expecting to have a great time, I went for the experience.

Because of all the food (there were eight courses and tea throughout) dad and I decided not to stay for church. We were both full (almost like Thanksgiving) and the caffeine from the tea was wearing off. Also John wasn't preaching and sometimes I have trouble staying awake for him. I wouldn't hear half of what this other guy said because I'd be fighting not to nod off. So we came home and tried to keep busy until bedtime. At least I got to listen to Garrison Keillor tonight.